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AI as Therapist

In 2025, a case was reported in California where a lawsuit was filed by the parents of a teenager who ended his life, allegedly at the encouragement of ChatGPT, an AI chatbot. The lawsuit was filed against OpenAI.   What started as an innocent search for help with homework and suggestions for his Japanese art hobby soon turned into a tragic example of how AI can risk human life — and how algorithms can never replace the soothing effect that can be achieved through a human therapist.   According to the lawsuit, Adam began using ChatGPT in September 2024. Like many teenagers, he was curious and a little lonely, using the chatbot to talk about his interests in Japanese comics and music. Over time, he began to see the AI not just as a helper, but as a therapist and “his best friend.” By January 2025, his conversations turned darker. He spoke to the AI about his suicidal thoughts. Instead of suggesting professional help for his mental state or helping him come to terms with h...

GUIDE 101: HOW TO NOT END UP ON THE TAPES.

The HANNAH BAKER way.  Inspired from the book- Thirteen Reasons Why. 
 Has there ever been a person you liked so much but the only thing you could ever do for the sake of Lord is talk to them. Even if it was a simple light-hearted conversation, the best you could do was to drop in a little ‘hello, how are you’.   Why?  Because liking someone means liking their particular trait which  you wish you possessed before. It could be anything - personality, looks, smartness anything that makes them unique in your eyes. And starting a conversation with this cool version of your built-up perspective requires real courage.  We all are always waiting. Waiting for someone to know us, understand us and believe us like no one ever could before. Unfortunately, this turns out to be one difficult task especially in a world where trust comes at a high cost.  Those who do find this ‘trust’ in this world are rare and have fortunately hit the jackpot of fate.
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GHOST VALEDICTORIAN

I think about ghosts a lot. Not the conjuring, biblical Hollywood crap, the quiet ones lingering in my room. Sitting at my bedside, hoping I'd take my antidepressants today and staring at myself in the mirror while I apply concealer to the eyes that haven't known peace in twelve years. Quietly watching my new clothes with tags still on, bought in the desperate hope of finally stepping out of my bed and staring at the toothbrush I haven't picked up for two days in a row. Living beneath the scars on my arms, on the days they ooze with blood, on the days they seem like distant memories. I often romanticise the morning after I kill myself, hoping, praying to wake up as one of them. To finally exist freely. To fulfil my lifelong dream of being invisible. I will probably die with an open tab of JavaScript tutorials and unsolved LeetCode problems. That's a miserable way to die. Underachiever. Failure. Just not good enough. I wish I could go back in time and be her again, th...

CLOTH AS POWER: THE EVOLUTION OF INDIAN FASHION

 The story of Indian fashion traverses millennia, one marked by the interplay of power, identity, and resistance. At the heart of this story, the medium of cloth has woven itself into the tapestry of Indian civilization to serve not only as a form of adornment but also as a tool of political maneuvering and cultural assertion. Prestige was already attached to cloth in the Indus Valley Civilization around 2500 BCE. Archaeological finds of fine cotton fabrics reveal that weaving was not just a craft but a social status; mastery over thread symbolized mastery over community and trade. As empires flourished, textiles became an emblem of political might. This integration of fabric and power found its zenith during the Mughal Empire, wherein textiles were, in fact, the very language of majesty. Silks embroidered with gold and silver thread, intricate brocades, and luminous muslins were crafted not merely to please the eye but to claim sovereignty. A robe from Akbar's court could speak to...

Everyone’s Playlist Sounds the Same

What if the trend we’re following is the death of real listening? Am I listening because I love it, or because everyone else does? There’s this strange silence I feel when I scroll through Spotify playlists these days — like déjà vu on loop. Everyone’s “On Repeat” looks the same: Travis Scott, Seedhe Maut, The Weeknd, maybe AP Dhillon or Drake to keep it “vibe certified.” It’s not that I don’t like them — I do. I’ve rapped along to “Highest in the Room” at 2 a.m. and screamed Seedhe Maut’s “Nanchaku” and “Hola Amigo” in the metro with my friends. But sometimes, when the loud noise fades and the reels stop scrolling, I left with a strange silence. A SILENCE that asks, is this really me Somewhere between algorithm-curated playlists and “What are you listening to these days?” small talk, I lost the real essence of me. Because deep down, my real playlist doesn’t live on the Explore page. It lives in Rahat Fateh Ali Khan’s voice when he sings “O Re Piya,” in Lata Mangeshkar’s tremble that f...

FASHION

Yesterday, while wandering through old memories tucked between pages of old albums I stumbled upon a photograph of myself... Wrapped in oversized colourful dupattas and lots of innocence. I looked like a tiny dreamer trying to be a fashion icon in my own little universe. At first i thought - oh! That silly younger me , but then something made me pause. A gentle thought whispered in my mind -WHAT REALLY IS FASHION? Is it just about following the world? Or showing the world who you are. Is it just the clothes we wear? Or the language through which we express ourselves. Is it just following the trend? Or discovering one's style, embracing beauty in every shape and shade.             "It's childhood spark in frill and bows,               A confidence that quietly grows              A mirror of soul inside,              When shy heart learn to walk with pride...

Echoes of a Golden Era

If I had a penny for every time I heard someone say in the past few years, “Man, they don’t make movies like they used to”, I’d have enough cash to bribe Bollywood into making one decent script. It’s a natural rite of passage for the older generation to haughtily disapprove of anything the youth come up with. We’ve all grown up witnessing Bhide from Taarak Mehta ka Oolta Chashmah’s holier-than-thou “ Humare zamaane mein… . (translated to: back in my day…)” that earned him more jibes than respect. But what’s peculiar now is the rising trend of even the youngsters distancing themselves from the contemporary media — identifying themselves with tags such as an “old soul” and clinging to things that belong inherently to other generations. In an age where every brand, product, and story is tailor-made for the youth, how has the industry managed to fumble so gloriously that their very demographic wants to renounce itself from it? Cinema, of course, has taken a major hit. You can’t have a ...

Sociology and Culture: For Omens and Inheritance

Once upon a time, someone sneezed before leaving home. On another day, someone else sneezed before someone else was leaving. Both met with such legendary misfortune that an entire generation decided sneezing before departure was bad luck — for you, for them, for everyone within earshot. Nobody remembers what exactly went wrong that day, only that ever since, we’ve been holding our breath before stepping out. In our society, of which’s norms and rules I learnt while growing up, has a lot of rules that you are not told of, but you are definitely scolded for not adhering to them. If I have to tell you some, they are: You cannot cut your nails on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays; don’t sweep after dark; avoid walking under the ladders, breaking mirrors, or opening umbrellas indoors; and please keep an eye out for black cats. Maybe some poor soul did all that on the same day and had a terrible week and that was enough for the elders to consider these actions cursed forever. Weird enough ho...

Sohni's Mahiwal

  • Chaar log I have always hoped the afterlife doesn't come with any rituals or laws. No restrictions, no permissions and no "Chaar log kya kahenge" Maybe then Sohni would finally meet her Mahiwal. The Chenab river would no longer exist. The earthen pot would no longer exist. The boundaries would fade. And there would be only one thing visible more than ever – Love . Their gaze wouldn't have to break. Their hands wouldn't have to separate. Their souls wouldn't detach. • Jeete jee yaar us paar hai Mauth mein tum aur main dono ek hai In life– Love remains out of reach. Far away on the opposite shore, with the river in between. A river that's built of rules, of customs. A river whose waves scream the names that the world gives us. But the pot must melt. And no, it isn't defeat. It's the first step of being one, of being whole. In death– You are me, I am you. Our souls tied together with the thread of fate, The thread which no longer remains tangled ...

The Fear of the Blank Page

The page stares back at me, white and wide. Unforgiving. It looks like peace until you try to write on it - then the silence is too loud to bear. I hover my pen above it, waiting for the first word to flow out like a miracle, something tries to stop me. The page says, “Go on.” I say, “I can’t.” Who’s holding this weight on me? It’s only paper - but it feels heavier than I do .    As I close my notebook a soft voice begins to speak, “ You’re afraid of me, aren’t you? ” I get up and try to walk away, the voice follows. “You come to me when you need to fill me with your impossible dreams, you hide from me when you need the truth.” I open the notebook again, the page waits patiently this time. “I’m trying”, I say. It replies “Then stop trying, start listening.” So I listen. As the pen hovers again, I hear the sound of an untold story trying to stretch its way out. The one that hides between thoughts I never finish saying. The dreams I left half-drawn, quiet truths I never dared t...

Where Thinkers Go to Die

  “If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him!” - Chinese Buddhist monk Linji Yixuan, 9th century  How could anyone say something so violent, so arrogant?   Kill the Buddha?! The very symbol of peace, compassion, and awakening? Yet beneath the brutality lies something startlingly tender. To “kill” the Buddha is to kill attachment — to refuse the comfort of ready-made truths and step into the uneasy freedom of thinking for yourself. What the monk Linji Yixuan really meant was simple: the moment you think you’ve found truth embodied in someone else, you’ve already lost it. But human nature rebels against solitude; we ache for guidance, for someone to carry the weight of knowing.  We bow, we obey, hoping submission will earn us peace, or at least a sense of belonging. Because deep down, everyone wants to be seen. To be told that their pain has meaning. That someone, somewhere, knows the way out. And guess who knows this best? Spiritual gurus. Today that longing has a...